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2019년 6월 23일 They're probably pulling their weight

by manydifferent 2019. 6. 23.

We are originally alone. Some people may say it's not, but it's clearly true. Everyone has to take whatever given by themselves because We're practically individual beings. So, If it's not too much for one person, There are some weight for a person.

I had been accepting this thing but on the other hand I had not. I had been worrying too much about others When I have to say something that may hurt others feelings. For example, When Someone ask me 'Do you have a plan?' or 'Let's get together?', I could possibly think 'Oh, I don't want to go outside or meet others today'. In this case, This is surely My right. I have right to say whatever I want to say unless hurt others feelings. But I had been worrying so much for others. even though I had been accepting it when someone talk to me that 'I don't want to meet you'. 

So, I've decided to think that People have their own thing to accept. and They could pull that. and now I don't need to worry about things they ought to do anymore. I trust people aren't fragile. They're probably pulling their weight.

2019.06.23 p.m 7:38

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* I said 'I had been worrying about others when I have to say something that may hurt others feelings' and 'I have a right to say whatever unless hurt other feelings' at the same time. I think this means I thought That kind of things'll hurt others feelings even though I had thought that's surely one's right that saying whatever I need to say. So, I've finally decided to think that it's just my right, and It isn't the way to hurt others feelings. It's just the way to tell others who I am.

2019.06.23 p.m 9:52

 

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